THE MEN'S SPACE

MEN'S CIRCLE

One space. Many perspectives.

In the men's circle, men with different experiences and backgrounds come together. We listen to each other, ask questions and share what's on our minds. Everyone decides for himself how much he brings in.

THE CIRCLE

What makes the circle.

There's no expectation to be strong all the time, and no obligation to talk about personal things.

A light facilitation helps keep conversations respectful. It doesn't create a therapeutic or hierarchical relationship. The quality of the circle comes from the people who are there.

POSSIBLE TOPICS

What we talk about.

  • 01

    What does masculinity mean to me?

  • 02

    Strength and uncertainty

  • 03

    Relationships and partnership

  • 04

    Friendship and community

  • 05

    Work, family and everyday life

  • 06

    Changes in life

  • 07

    Personal values

GROUND RULES

Respect

Everyone is heard, nobody is interrupted.

Your choice

You only share what you want to share.

Confidentiality

What's said in the circle stays in the circle.

No judgement

We don't judge each other.

UPCOMING DATES

Next circle

Men's Circle – evening circle

Date
Thu, 10 Dec 2026, 7 pm
Location
St. Pauli, Hamburg
Duration
approx. 2.5 hrs
Places
max. 10
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THE MEN'S SPACE is privately organised and non-profit. If there are costs, for example for a room, we split them between us.

More about the circle near you: Hamburg · Berlin

FAQ

Frequently asked questions.

What is a men's circle?+

A men's circle is a space for conversation where men listen to each other, ask questions and share experiences. Everyone decides for himself how much he brings in.

What happens at a men's circle?+

We sit in a circle while one person holds the frame. After a short check-in, anyone who wants to talks about what's on his mind – the others listen. An evening lasts about two and a half hours.

Do I need any experience?+

No. No prior experience is needed. Listening is just as welcome as speaking.

Can I come just once?+

Yes. You can simply come along once and see whether it suits you. There's no obligation to come regularly.

Are there men's circles in Hamburg?+

Yes. Our next evening circle is on Thursday, 10 December 2026 at 7 pm in Hamburg St. Pauli. Our current focus areas are Hamburg and Berlin; men from all over Germany are welcome.

Is the men's circle a form of therapy?+

No. The men's circle is not psychotherapy or treatment and is no substitute for medical or psychotherapeutic care.

How many men take part?+

A maximum of 10, so there's enough room for everyone.